How to celebrate pregnancy-style?

My husband’s birthday is next weekend and I have a dilemma on what to do to celebrate. Sure, we could enjoy a type date night, but I’d really like to do something special since once this baby arrives, I realize we will not have much going-out time nor money anymore.

The few ideas I have come up with have been ruled out by our pocketbook or doctor’s orders. We cannot go to theme parks given the fact I cannot go on any rides and I may fall over from heat stroke in Florida’s 90 degree weather. Plus we’d like to do the Disney thing with our three-year-old and so that’s really not a celebration for my hubby. I thought creatively and booked an airboat ride in Everglades City, but the doctor ruled that out because it was too bumpy. We can’t stay at the beach because of the flesh-eating bacteria swarming our waters, plus it’s not that special.

So, my conclusions: I’ve come up with three alternative ideas.

First, John Pennekamp snorkeling in Key Largo. Although, we probably won’t go with this idea, snorkeling trips are around $30 out of the state park. Hotels in the area are pricey though and the trip down takes a while. It’s a gorgeous reef surrounding a Jesus statute and really something all Floridians should take the time to see.

Second, a ride down the Rainbow River in Dunnelleon. This is north of Tampa and about 3 hours from Charlotte County. The hotels are around $70-80/night. The KP hole is where you launch a tube. Entrance and rental fees are about $15/person and the water is a consistent cool temperature of 72 degrees. The float down the river takes approx. 4 hours. This sounds awesome to a pregnant woman seeking relief from the hot summer days.

Lastly, Weeki Wachee. Same distance of 3 hours. Mermaid shows, animals and a fun little water park for the kids. Hotels are around the same as above and entrance fees are about $15/person and free for younger kids.

Getting enough shut-eye?

It’s Thursday and I’m exhausted, as I am sure most of you are. I looked up some tips to feel a tad more awake in the morning. Here are some good ones:

1. Cut the caffeine out early. So, you got to have that cup of coffee, or two, in the morning to get going and come 2 p.m., you hit another wall and opt for a soda, tea, or coffee. One tip is to start weaning off the afternoon caffeine. Try cutting your cup in half and slowing weaning off the afternoon caff. If you need to add in a vitamin to add an energy boost, try B12, or munching on a protein bar or berries. It’s also helpful to cut out desserts after dinner to curb the sugar intake.

2. Power down. We are so in-tune with our electronics. Some of us even fall asleep with the TV on or reading a book on the iPad. Screens disturb your ability to relax and gradually wind down. Consider watching TV after dinner and not right before bed. Try to stop looking at your email, Facebook, Pinterest, right before you shut off the lights. Get in bed and turn on the bedside lamp instead of having the TV or overhead lights on. If you read on a tablet, use one that resembles looking at paper (brightness of screen), or use a real book…they always seem to put me to sleep.

3. Expend that remaining energy you have. Take walk after dinner or do squats across the room. Also, doing some yoga poses helps stretch you out and allow you to relax.

4. Have those important conversations earlier. It seems like once you lie down, you remember things you’d like to chat with your spouse about. Remember you aren’t as sharp at the hour and not likely to remember important details, such as when to pick up your child from his sitter next Friday, so make a point to talk earlier. (it’s always helpful to keep a Post-It pad and pen on your nightstand) Also, some conversations with important details sometimes cause fights. Becoming more emotional and fired up will not help you wind down.

Hope you catch some ZZZs soon!

Beauty Quick Fixes

It’s Monday morning, or any morning for that matter, and you are rushing around the house attempting to get out the door (or all other family members out the door) when you realize you ran out of a beauty or hygiene product yesterday. If you are like me, you freak a little and vow to stop at the CVS or Walgreens on the way out. But do you really have a few minutes to squeeze in your commute?

Here are some quick fixes I have come up with to deal with these dire situations. Disclaimer: These are definitely temporary and you should probably not procrastinate and rely on these solutions for days on end.

1. You or a man in the house ran out of shaving cream. Solution: conditioner or baby oil. Be careful, surface of skin will be more slippery and prone to nicks and bumps.

2. You look like a raccoon with mascara smudged under your eyes and there is no eye makeup remover in sight. Solution: Vaseline. Be sure to use sparingly and completely wipe it off since it will prevent a new application of makeup from staying put.

3. No more deodorant. Solution: Pat some baby powder under your pits, but please stop by the store soon, especially in balmy, hot Florida.

4. Coffee breath and no more toothpaste. Solution: Use some baking soda to brush your teeth and avoid close conversations with others.

Again, these are meant when you are in a bind. Wishing you a few extra minutes to stop by the store today!

Beach-themed Gift Ideas for Mom

It’s mid-week and heading straight toward Mom’s Day. Let her know you appreciate her and give her something that corresponds to her Florida lifestyle. Here are just a few ideas:

1. Sand Dollar Cookies. Make her a batch of these adorable sand dollar cinnamon sugar cookies

bake: Sand Dollar Cinnamon Sugar Cookies

2. Create a beach-themed gift basket. Stock it up with a beach mat, towel, sunscreen, and water bottle. If you want to make it extra special, throw in a SPF 50+ scarf, which can be found at http://spfaddict.com/category/scarves/

3. Do something outdoorsy, like paddleboarding. It’s an easy and enjoyable experience where you can enjoy nature and have a great chat with mom. Check out Hooked on SUP in Englewood/Boca Grande area. Rates start at $20 for an hour rental. http://www.hookedonsup.com/rates.html

4. Get the lady a nice piece of jewelry that is as unique as she is. That means nothing from Kay’s or other run-of-the-mill jewelry chains. Scour pawn shops and other estate jewelry shops for older pieces. Look at local jewelers’ shops for pieces owners created themselves that are indeed one-of-a-kind. Check out Barbara Anne’s Jewelry on Boca Grande for ocean-themed jewelry such as shipwreck coin necklaces. https://www.facebook.com/BarbaraAnnesJewelry

5. Beach Photo. Take a photo of the kids and place it in a shadow box. Fill the bottom with sand and shells from the local beach. It will remind mom of all the great memories with the kiddos at one of her favorite places.

Happy Mother’s Day, everyone. Know that you are appreciated!

Rain, rain, go away. I wanted to go to the beach today.

Saturdays in SW Florida are made for beaching. But what do you do when your weekend is full of rain?

1. Indoor Bounce Houses

Leaping Lizards, Venice, FL

Leaping Lizards, Venice, FL


My top pick for a rainy day and a rambunctious kid(s) is to hit up an indoor bounce house. Remember to bring socks! A few in our area include:
Leaping Lizards – 4411 S Tamiami Trail, Venice, FL 34293
KidStar located in Port Charlotte at the Flea Market – 18505 Paulson Dr, Port Charlotte, FL 33954
EscapeZone – 4411 S Tamiami Trail, Venice, FL 34293

2. Indulge

Abbie's Donuts located in North Port and Port Charlotte on 41

Abbie’s Donuts located in North Port and Port Charlotte on 41


Take the family out for a ice cream or donuts. We like Sweet Scoops in Port Charlotte or Abbie’s Donuts in North Port or Port Charlotte (cash only).

3. Ikea or Indoor Malls
Window shop at Tampa’s International Mall, Ikea, or Sarasota Square Mall. We also like Bass Pro Shop in Fort Myers, where the kids can enjoy watching fish feedings.

4. Date Day
Employ a sitter or the grandparents to watch your kids so you and yours can catch a matinee movie. Opt for a PG-13 or R to avoid other kiddos. Hey, it’s dark outside, just like a night date, with the added bonus of a lower price.

5. Start Christmas shopping or Birthday shopping
I realize this is ambitious, but you will thank me once December rolls around and prices are marked up. My favorite places to find bargains include the outside end cap displays at Target and the toy clearance sections a Wal-Mart. For Florida attire, it really is unfortunate to wait until winter to shop for clothing to give since the store limit their inventory more to sweaters and pants, which we rarely wear in Florida. The best time to pick up clearance Florida-appropriate clothing for gifts is right before back-to-school. It’s when all the swimsuits, tank tops and flip flops are marked down.

It’s 5 o’clock somewhere…5 AM, that is

Gone are the days that I could tolerate, I mean, actually enjoy the hours past midnight. Another strange pregnancy symptom for me is sleeplessness. You’d think God would want to give me some Zzzzzs before the baby arrives and I am up 3+ times a night doing feedings and changing diapers, but then again God has a strange sense of humor sometimes. I believe this is my what makes me most nervous and, shall I dare say, is a major con to welcoming a new one into the fold.

My wholehearted goal this go around is to employ my husband this time. My last experience with a newborn brought with it sleepless nights for the first six months. And because I breastfeed, I was the one up every night. I remember the countless times I would literally kick my husband when I caught our baby’s first cries at 2 a.m. over the monitor.

So, this go-around, I told my husband straight up that we would be taking turns. One night on, one night off. And, when you are on shift, you sleep in the baby’s room so the other parent can actually sleep and not be woken up by the monitor. (By “other parent”, I mean me).

Moms, what advice do you have to avoid becoming a zombie during the first six months of sleeplessness? Have any of you effectively split up feedings with your significant other?

Maybe some of you who work as bartenders or nurses in those early hours have tips to feel awake the next morning besides the obvious one of buying some strong Cuban coffee?